April 2, 2011 - Jen's move

Hey everyone,  
I just got back from helping Jen with her move.  I got there at 8am to find the apartment a complete disaster.  Nothing was done.  She was in the kitchen and never touched it.  I got her organized in her kitchen.  The movers came at 9:30am expecting that the job would take a few hours.  Nope, they quoted her about $600.00 with 6 hrs of work.  She completely lost it.  I wasn't about to lend her any money, she has me there (only me!).  I am working like a dog, I couldn't work any harder than i did.  Nothing was thrown out.  We threw out about 20 bags of garbage.  I can't believe she was that bad.  I loaded my car by myself, she took down a few things but I did the majority of the stuff to my car.  She is the slowest person alive, Think of a car driving 5 MPH.  Thats Jen.....  She has boxes still at the old place - she had garbage and crap behind sofas, chairs, under her bed was covered in garbage.  It was horrible!  She kept asking me about monday - she knew I was off the whole day for my aunts wake/funeral.  I said no, I have family obligations.  I know I will be done around 2pm and would like a little bit piece and quiet - not take the rest of the day to help her again.  I told her i would try and get toms truck on Tuesday after work but I am thinking I might back out on that.  Im just pissed because I was the only one out of everyone she knew that was available to help her out.  If she had at least 2 other people, with vehicles - then we would be able to get the crap out.  She claims that she had a guy willing to help out but he backed out.  He's an idiot and shouldn't even be friends with the guy. 
Well, I must be going to my aunts funeral. today is the 1st night.  I have to be there for my godfather - he would be there for me.  ITs all about my family.  I don't know what I will be crying about more - Aunt Judy or having to deal with Jen's move.