any changes for you

not exactly an update.... but maybe it is... just curious... has anybody found major changes with their significant other with regards to their personal relationship with their significant other after the death of a child... Is grief a turning point... how long do you hang in there hoping things will get back to what is normal... (if there's such a thing as normal)  For instance I know that my normal is soooooo not like anybody elses... just a question.. Would be interested in somebody elses views on this... thanks