Answer
Someone once asked me to come back to this site and share the answer to moving on if I did indeed find an answer. Well, I believe I have found the answer. I thought about posting this on the main message board but I will not. I know better. Too many people will not understand it... its not something anyone wants to hear and may sound dark... but there is a message of hope and as a disclaimer this is only my opinion, so whoever reads this can pass it off as much as they like.
The answer is pain. You are born into this world through pain, and you will leave it with pain. The whole while you are here you are meant for pain. The human experience is pain. Look around you, look at the drama we must have in our lives. Drama = Pain. All of us are in some form of it constantly, and if we are not, we seek it out.
Consider yourself lucky when your pain comes from someone elses' deeds. It is better to suffer for someone else's foolishness than your own, for you can then see how pain makes you a stronger being. The foolish create their own pain, and rarely learn or recognize they want/need it. Everyone must have it, not everyone will understand why.
This may sound simple but it is not. Accept your pain. Accept that all must have it. Realize that the dreams you created about the perfect life were created using hope, and hope is good, but if you must endure pain then those dreams are to be shattered. You must understand that hope was never meant for this world. Hope was not meant for something that will eventually die. Hope is eternal. Any relationship you ever create with any physical being will never live up to what hope was meant to be.
It's the simple answer my friends. Accept your pain, accept that you would have found pain on your own if someone else hadn't beaten you to it. Its easy to say you would've been the best of angels... but no, you wouldn't have. The fact that you are human proves it.
The answer is pain. You are born into this world through pain, and you will leave it with pain. The whole while you are here you are meant for pain. The human experience is pain. Look around you, look at the drama we must have in our lives. Drama = Pain. All of us are in some form of it constantly, and if we are not, we seek it out.
Consider yourself lucky when your pain comes from someone elses' deeds. It is better to suffer for someone else's foolishness than your own, for you can then see how pain makes you a stronger being. The foolish create their own pain, and rarely learn or recognize they want/need it. Everyone must have it, not everyone will understand why.
This may sound simple but it is not. Accept your pain. Accept that all must have it. Realize that the dreams you created about the perfect life were created using hope, and hope is good, but if you must endure pain then those dreams are to be shattered. You must understand that hope was never meant for this world. Hope was not meant for something that will eventually die. Hope is eternal. Any relationship you ever create with any physical being will never live up to what hope was meant to be.
It's the simple answer my friends. Accept your pain, accept that you would have found pain on your own if someone else hadn't beaten you to it. Its easy to say you would've been the best of angels... but no, you wouldn't have. The fact that you are human proves it.
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