another Wednesday is here

Here is is another day and really nothing has been talked about because she is so unresponsive about anything.  My daughter wants to talk to her and I am ready to go back to the twice a week contact.  My wife said she is willing to try one counseling session, like come on, if you are thinking about working on something you need some type of committment to acheive it.  So yes, I do know that she is playing with my emotions so I am really being defensive now.  She asked last night if somedays she could keep our daughter while i work. I put her off saying i need to talk to my lawyer first, but that wont happen because I dont trust her and i know she is trying to do this so she can tell the court that she is taking care of my daughter. 
I am getting very observant with her lies.  She thinks she is doing something good but all the while she has a knife behind her back.  I asked her and the boy, if he and i wanted to go to counseling together.  he said yes at first, but now its the generic answer no he doesnt but cant we just get along.