Another IVF???
DH and I have been talking about it a lot... He really wants to go for it, I am not so sure. I am afraid that once again we will come out empty handed or at worse we will have history repeat itself and I will lose another baby.
So what to do? I feel really lost, anxious and very, very confused. I know that if we never try again I will never become a mother, so in that regard I really want to, but on the other, what if... this is the very last IVF we are going to be able to do for a VERY long time. we are now out of money and we will be asking DH's mum to loan us the cost. I never wanted to have to do this!
I need some guidance...
So what to do? I feel really lost, anxious and very, very confused. I know that if we never try again I will never become a mother, so in that regard I really want to, but on the other, what if... this is the very last IVF we are going to be able to do for a VERY long time. we are now out of money and we will be asking DH's mum to loan us the cost. I never wanted to have to do this!
I need some guidance...
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Your fear is very normal. I feel like your desire to be a mommy is so strong you should go in that direction....that way you will have no regrets. Good luck in making your decision. I am here for you xo
Go for it. Now or later u will do it. Just think positive and pray to God to give u that miracle. Hope it will be a successful cycle and u will be a mommy soon. Wish u the best of luck. Lots and lots of baby dust to u. Gos bless u.
Such a tough thing to go through but I think it\'s worth it in the end. I really hope this IVF is the one that you can bring you baby home in your arms! Hang in there!
Lina. I hope you go for it. Fear of course. But let hope and faith in. I know the expense is soo overwhelming as well but this is it. I will be praying hard the whole time for your baby to come to you so very soon. Hugs
hi lina, sorry its been along time, now weve spoken before and i know that you have been to hell and back babe, you are a strong lady and have a great hubby whose there for you, you know in your own heart what for the best, but you know the old sayings are the best that if you dont try you wont know, and i think you have it in you to do it again, no it wont be easy, but you have everyone heres support and more importantly the closest person you will ever need, i will be thinking of you whatever you decide and i pray that this time if you do go ahead, you will get the family you so long for, give yourself some love and care, and pamper yourself, with simple things, it doesnt have to be expensive, get yourself a nice magazine away from the topic of babies and some nice choccies whatever you fancy as you know as well as anyone else the more uptight or worried you are it has an effect on the body and its immune system, so the more you look after yourself and enjoy something you love doing the more likely you are to succeed at things, i wish you all the luck in the world thinking of you, sending biggest hugs going, and hope to hear from you soon. astrid40xoxo
I was on very low dose of antidepressants because of my panic attacks. It genetic in my case because my mother has the same and she is on antidepressants. But my OBJ told me to stop because of the baby. I would try natural medication. I know tea and massages works for me. I also go to the gym all the time and it heps me with stress. It know the pain is never will go away. It just the question of how to live with it. Did you though about adoption? Sending Big Hug and Lots of Strange your way.