Another divorce?
Weve only been married a little over a year. We argue a lot. Mostly because of his alcoholic family that just dislike me because I am not like them. He hides things from me because I have asked him not to do certain things like hang around with addicts and their whores. But tonight he said he had to step up to be a dad to my kids. Had to step up??? Who made him step up? Not us. I am so hurt and angry that I can't sleep. I don't know how much more I can take. I think he misses being a drunk pot head with no responsibilities. I don't need this crap.
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As I was reading this, I was thinking there must be more to this story. If a father has a desire to step up and be a better dad....I don't see what is wrong with this statement, unless he doesn't do what he says he needs to do.
Arguing in front of kids is not a good idea so probably best to call it quits with the marriage. IMHO. It sounds like it's been a toxic relationship right from the start.
God Bless