Another day, another reason to stay strong

So...He just got home, it is nearly 10:00 at night. He tries to act like he is working all the time, but the truth is he is spending time at his...shop, not to work on things to make money, but to play with his own vehicles. Anyway, when he got here my youngest was throwing a tantrum because she wanted me to buy something for her and I told her the funds weren't there. He walks in and I'm trying to be pleasant, so I say hi how are you in as bright a voice as I can muster. He retorts, "hungry how about that!?" Still trying to be pleasant I walk over to him and try to kiss him on the cheek. He told his eyes and pushes me away from him. I walk away. I am doing laundry and had a pair of dress pants hanging on the shower rid to dry. He storms back in and gets in my face saying "do you want to put this shit somewhere, I'm trying to take an f_ing shower in here. So I grab them, hang them on the door and stay fixing his dinner. He takes his shower, all the while my daughter is still being a brat, but now she's in her brothers room (he's at his gf house). He must have had some dishes in his room, I'm standing here preparing his freaking meal and he walks in and starts yelling about me leaving the dishes in my son's room when he knows that I've known all along they were there. Oh my GOD I cannot take this anymore.