another bad day
What another crap day,kids were arguing all day then my daughter was saying shes going to move in with her dad because she cant stand living with her brother and me.As usual ive done nothing wrong but she sais i always take my sons side(i dont) so again everything was my fault.I really cant take much more of this,also i am angry at stbx cause all he sees is them when they are on best behaviour.Its also been 18 days no contact and i am sometimes finding it hard especially when im having trouble with the kids,its so hard knowing i cant turn to him for support.Had my friend talk to my daughter on the phone as i couldnt stop crying.when will things get easier?He has no crap to deal with.
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NIx.. You are ok your kids are ok. They are looking at you to blame. They don\'t know the whole story and want things back the way they were. Perhaps, you should let your husband take your kids on the weekends (cramp his style) After all he made his bed. You need some \"me\" time. Sounds, like you have some good friends that are willing to help. You are lucky. 18 days is nothing. It is 18 days of freedom. (turn it on it\'s head) you are managing great. Look for the good in the muck.