Annoying, Clingy
DH has been kind of annoying lately & especially clingy. I mean LITERALLY clingy. Can't stop touching, saying "you're cute", staring. In & of themselves, this is OK--if they were spontaneous & seemingly sincere. But it's like ALL THE TIME. I know I have to say something, though I know I'll just get "can't I ever touch my wife?" Argh! It's a no-win situation. I guess my choices are: have him pout, or have me be annoyed.
Yesterday, he was in the basement, blasting some music. He got a call, so I went to get him & he's there in his UW! (Didn't look like anything else, but I didn't stick around.) And this morning he was loading up the car for his job & again, he was in his T-shirt & UW--outside!! What the heck?
I know what he wants, but for crying out loud! It's like he becomes this different creature! I don't want a creature--I want a person!
On a positive note, my son & I have been getting along very well lately (though school is not in session--LOL). He's been wanting to play his Yu-Gi-Oh card game & so I play with him. I told him it's because I love him, not necessarily the game, and want to spend time with him. I've gotta take advantage of these moments!
It was funny: yesterday, he was following me around after dinner, not saying much. Then I ask him, "did you want to play the game?" He laughs & says: "How do you know? How do moms know these things?" Ah, the super-powers of being a mom!
Yesterday, he was in the basement, blasting some music. He got a call, so I went to get him & he's there in his UW! (Didn't look like anything else, but I didn't stick around.) And this morning he was loading up the car for his job & again, he was in his T-shirt & UW--outside!! What the heck?
I know what he wants, but for crying out loud! It's like he becomes this different creature! I don't want a creature--I want a person!
On a positive note, my son & I have been getting along very well lately (though school is not in session--LOL). He's been wanting to play his Yu-Gi-Oh card game & so I play with him. I told him it's because I love him, not necessarily the game, and want to spend time with him. I've gotta take advantage of these moments!
It was funny: yesterday, he was following me around after dinner, not saying much. Then I ask him, "did you want to play the game?" He laughs & says: "How do you know? How do moms know these things?" Ah, the super-powers of being a mom!
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