Angel friends, i need to write about some things. Holly,Family stuff :)

hi angel friends, big group comforting friendship hug :) 

i have some things i need to share, and to write about. some upcoming changes, but changes for the better,and for the future :) things haven't been the same in recent times,and currently. i've been struggling, and worried about Holly. it's a difficult situation she's been facing. it's not fair,and wasn't supposed to be like this. when you care very  much about someone, and they are struggling through a time that's tougher than it should be, you want to do all you can, to help out,and to make things better, to make things right. we're a kind, loving, caring family, and we cherish the wonderfulness of close friendships, bonds, and connections. i've always said, when we all are going through a rough time, it's like we all are a family banding together, and helping eachother. That's one of the key values of being a family. :) 

Holly is one of us :) She and i met, here on DS. we got close, and we've been very tight, close, through a lot of things. there's lots i haven't shared, or posted about, but out of respect of her privacy, and not unloading all kinds of stuff into my journals.

2012,she had tia strokes, some bad falls, and concussions.

2013, increase of migraines.

2015, she was uprooted from her home,by her dad, and they took her 2 cats away, broke her heart, and then put her in a place with a lady who wasn't right with her.

She moved in with Regina,and it got bad there.

2016, her dear mom Linda passed away.

2017, 2018, she developed into an eating disorder

2019, she wanted to get treated for her eating disorder,was all set, put everything into motion,and her daughter Kim, emotionally abused her, treated her very badly, upset her to the point where she experienced PTSD, and depression got worse, and her daughter put her into a crisis center, and then another one,and just left her there. 

Holly doesn't deserve that. no one does. She's beenthrough a lot, she's a fighter,and a survivor :) She and i talked last evening, 2 heart to heart talks. she wants out of Maryland. She said,no one visited her, she even put make up on last weekend,and no one came to see her. it's very upsetting. She's been through a lot, but a lot of it caused by outer forces of lack of support from her own family. it's been heart-wrenching to hear her sad voice. she is a wonderful person,and doesn't deserve this, she deserves better. She said, that the social worker said, the group housing, is$750 per month, and would be with another 9 people, for a total of 10 people. she can't afford it, plus she said, she wouldn't do well in that type of situation. i made some calls last night,and thinking about things.

This morning, Holly called me at 7:14am before they take vitals. she and i talked. it was a very good talk. i talked with my mom earlier,and i told Holly about the talk, and some things my mom and i discussed. we're discussing big things, that will be changes, but changes for the better. Holly needs a family right now, she needs welcoming, open arms, to be there for her, but most importantly,needs hearts that are understanding, caring, and helpful. She wants to be out of Maryland, she feels like there's nothing left really,and wants a fresh start. her daughter Kim is moving to Massachusetts. my mom and i are gonna call Sheppard Pratt today, to discuss things with them. there's a very deep meaningly chance, opportunity, that is almost certain, 100%,  that Holly is gonna be moving to Connecticut, and she's gonna be with us here. she needs this,new start, new beginning, she needs family life. She and i are very close, deeply hearts connected, and we want to be there for her, in her time of need.Holly and i have wanted to be together, but with situations, and all going on, we haven't had time to discuss everything, but we need to do something for her. Holly is ALL for this, wheni talked with her this morning about it, she pepped up, and was so thankful, and grateful. we want to give her a fresh start, and beginning with slow steps. She is being treated at SP right now, with getting use too her new meds, but that's a good thing, and that will help her in the long run. i contacted Holly's therapist,and he may be giving me a call today to discuss things. Holly is very capable, independent, and just needs a little help right now. all of the things above i mentioned,that she's been through, it would be majorly hard on anyone, to make it through with very little help. Holly is family to us, and we want her to be here with us, to begin a new fresh start, that she deserves. :) this is gonna be a process, and won't happen overnight, but it will happen, and will be the new start she needs, getting situated, and being together :) i talked with my mom, and Lisa, Alyssa,we all are for this,my dad's in too :) we're gonna help Holly,and she'll be with us, and new times ahead to enjoy :) i'm not going anywhere, i will always be here on DS <3 Holly is family to us, and we'd love to have her here with us, and we're gonna be right there by her side, on her journey to getting healthier, with her eating disorder recovery, and for years to come :) we just have to take it one day, sometimes one hour at a time :) We need you all, our dear angel friends, on this with us :) i will keep everyone updated :) we're gonna take it slow, easy,and the process will take time, but we're gonna make it through, a day at a time :) 

-never lose hope :) 

This is all from my heart. everyone who knows me, knows i'll always stand by Holly's said :) This has been very rough on her and i, but we're strong, and we'll remain strong :)