an early morning update. Thank you all, for being here for Holly and us all :)
Good morning angel friends :) i want to post an update here, with some news on Holly, and going on's. She and i, and our family's are very thankful, for all of our love, care, and support. i've been sharing all of your heart-felt comments, support, prayers, encouragement. it's very comforting, and uplifting. It's been helping Holly a lot, especially in recent days, when she's been moving her belongings, where she currently is to her storage unit.
Last night, Holly and i were watching youtube videos, and an episode of Paranormal Lockdown on youtube. around 9:42am, she got a beep/phone call in, from her daughter Kim. Regina was at the house too, and Holly was anxious. Holly talked with her daughter for a few minutes, and then came back to our call. Holly said, her daughter backed out of taking her to the SP Eating disorder hospital, due to getting a secondary job (babysitting) scheduled for today) and told Holly she'd bring her on thursday. Today is the day, when her daughter promised Holly, she was gonna drive her to the hospital, and talk with the workers/therapists there. Holly's daughter is a nurse. Holly said she pleaded with Kim to bring her, even if it was during afternoon today. She said Kim was hesitant, and pretty much,told Holly to bring herself, or to work something out with Margie. Holly and i were both very upset, and Holly was so upset, she asked me if i could text her brother Robert (Kim's uncle). and if he could talk with her about things. i texted Robert, it was after 10pm now, and Robert said he'd text with Kim about things. he ended up getting back to us, and said that Kim said, "thursday". if my mom, was going through a rough health situation, i couldn't imagine telling her, to wait another 2 days, especially if we all had promised her, to go on a certain day. i know things come up, but a babysitting job? it just is disheartening to hear.
Holly wants to go today, to begin the process, of her healing journey, and she's been pumping herself up for this to begin and has gotten everything in order. her daughter Kim, mentioned all of this, on December 21st, bringing the opportunity up for Holly, and this journey for her. Holly's brother Robert texted me, and he sounded disappointed too, that Kim was backing out, of bringing Holly today. We're disappointed, that Kim would put a secondary job above the health and care of her mom. i told Holly, if that family Kim is gonna babysit for knew about the situations, they'd probably tell Kim, to go be there for her mom (Holly). Holly wanted Kim to join her last week, to talk with her therapist, and Kim wouldn't go. i stayed up a bit later with Holly last night, to comfort her. Kim has backed out of situations before, including a recent cancellation of their Thanksgiving visit (20 minutes before the scheduled visit). it's been rough on Holly, and us all, who care deeply about her, and for her to get the help she needs, to get healthier, and to heal. we know her daughter is busy, she's a nurse, and all, but she promised Holly she'd take her January 2nd and it meant a lot to Holly, that her daughter was going to be by her side when she went in. her brother is in Washington St. we're in Connecticut. Margie and Chet live nearby Holly, so we're thinking they could maybe bring her today.
i'm going to call Holly this morning. i think she's gonna go to her brother's inlaw's, Margie's and Chet's home, and is gonna talk with them about things, and i believe there's a chance they may bring her. Holly doesn't want to wait until thursday. she is ready to go in today, but we aren't sure what's gonna happen. we're all gonna roll with the day, best we can, and i'll update everyone, later on today. We're hoping, and praying Holly is gonna be ok. i'm gonna call her early, and will keep closely connected with her, all in, on everything. Big group caring friendship hugs. Thank you angel friends :) You all being here for us, means the world to us :) it's been a very emotional time. We're gonna stick close by Holly's side today, and i'll definitely write an update later :) We're gonna go to the post office when they open, i'm gonna call Holly a bit before then, and on the way home, and see what her plans are for the day. we're all in this together :) will keep everyone updated :)
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Hope Holly is able to go today. Sorry her daughter backed out she needs to get her priorities In line Not much you can do about it as you're in CT. Let her family deal with it Don't worry it will work out She will go Thursday if not today
Oh my, Chris, I’m sorry Kim backed out today. I pray it doesn’t happen again Thursday. I hope someone else manages to bring her today. Strangely it’s good that she’s disappointed and doesn’t feel thankful about this turn of events. She could have easily taking it as a pro not a con, but she wants to get stronger! Go Holly!!!
So sorry,Chris, praying that things work.