that is how it is SUPPOSED to work. anything else is a distortion of truth and health and leaves you at a disadvantage. abuse isolaltes us and makes us think we have to do it all on our own, makes us feel guilty if we need anything. but life is about relationship and interdependence with people who will support and treat you with respect and love and dignity. you are not wrong to rely on trustworthy people in the hard times to help you get through, or to celebrate with them in the good times. i want to be here with you! keep asking your questios, sweety, you are on the right track!
I WANT to be here for you. I may not have all the answers, but I want to help anyway I can. If that\'s just listening, then I\'m ok with that. Thank you for being here for me too. Love and hugs, Danette
I was having a really tough time recently and you were one of the ones who helped me so I would like to think I could do the same for you, anytime.
Thats what friends are for.
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no hun. we all need help sometimes. denying you ned it would be foolish, asking for help is wise
that is how it is SUPPOSED to work. anything else is a distortion of truth and health and leaves you at a disadvantage. abuse isolaltes us and makes us think we have to do it all on our own, makes us feel guilty if we need anything. but life is about relationship and interdependence with people who will support and treat you with respect and love and dignity. you are not wrong to rely on trustworthy people in the hard times to help you get through, or to celebrate with them in the good times. i want to be here with you! keep asking your questios, sweety, you are on the right track!
I WANT to be here for you. I may not have all the answers, but I want to help anyway I can. If that\'s just listening, then I\'m ok with that. Thank you for being here for me too. Love and hugs, Danette
Maybe a little of both. But we all need friends and people we rely on, so make use of them.
A little of both of what?
I was having a really tough time recently and you were one of the ones who helped me so I would like to think I could do the same for you, anytime.
Thats what friends are for.