Am I a Fool?
Am I a fool for taking him back? I feel like a fool, and I feel even worse about myself now. I'm constantly worried about what he is doing...is he trying to contact her? Is he still hiding something? I caught him talking to her three days after we reconciled but he claims it was just to say hi and that she wanted to know how me and my children were. All I can think to say is F*#$ her and F*#$ him too. I feel that he is lying deep in my core....I just don't know if it's paranoia or the truth. Last time I felt like this I was right.
I think that he only came back because of our children, and because of the comfort home provides. He continuously tells me that if I can't let go and trust him, then he's leaving. I feel like he should have to work to get my trust back.
Am I a fool????
I think that he only came back because of our children, and because of the comfort home provides. He continuously tells me that if I can't let go and trust him, then he's leaving. I feel like he should have to work to get my trust back.
Am I a fool????
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No...you are not a fool. You are a devoted wife and mother who is trying to hold her marriage and family together. My advice is to stay on top of the situation and be prepared for the worst but hope for the best. Even if he says he wants to rebuild, he is still going to have the urge to contact her.
Read a book called \"Not Just Friends\" and another good one would be \"Love Must Be Tough.\" Don\'t make his life easy and don\'t let him hold the cards. He needs to know that he cannot do this and then just come back and expect nothing has changed. He has to earn your trust again.
Sending support!