Almost 3 Years!

Its been almost 3 yrs and im not his girlfriend yet! Pathetic i know. Im finally done w/ the excuses.... believing its gonna happen. I know its not.... if he wanted me to be his girlfriend then I would be. The worst part is.... his ex became his girlfriend after a month and a half! They were only together for like 8 months and he almost married her!! But yet 3 yrs and im not his girlfriend. He keeps saying he wantes me to be and only has feelings for me.... but come on.... that excuse only works for so long!  Im done waiting. Its ridiculous!!