all better

So I let my guard down for a brief moment and it costs me but I found the phone number, which was very well hidden, and they said they would refund my payment although I don't see it posted to my account yet.
It was late at night, I was tired, lonely, horny, and that made me vulnerable.  Now that I am aware, I will think twice before it happens again.
Thankyou for all the advice and suggestions you guys gave me.  Love you all.

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Kahlua13
Kahlua13

You don\'t have to be lonely if you don\'t want to be. I have my husband naturally but I still felt lonely. I have been volunteering at church for 10 years now and love it! I feel much more connected to people and to my church. I am now also fostering dogs and meeting wonderful people who care about animals as much as I do. Find something you love and do it! There are some wonderful Senior Citizens places around here I would love to volunteer at as well. There are others out there who are lonely. You could make a difference!
deleted_user
deleted_user

Don\'t feel foolish. I got taken by some miscreant in Nigeria on this site (DS terminated his account) who convinced me he was an 11 year old orphan with an older brother working hard to support them (mother died from AIDS). Sure enough, after about a few weeks of \"you are my new mother, I love you\" etc. messages and emails (I actually gave the \"kid\" my email addy), he asked for money. They had a terrible storm (and yes I checked online and there was a terrible storm where he lived) and the roof of their hut was destroyed. I wired them $50 and then waited to see what would happen. A few weeks later, guess what: they needed more money. I sent them links to Catholic Charities in their area but somehow no one was able to help them (yeah, right). So I wised up.

You\'re under enormous stress, Bob. You need emotional validation because of the damage your wife has done to you, as a man, as a human, as a life partner, as a friend. Join a church and look for people to associate with who are REAL Christians (be careful, don\'t join the wrong church lol). There are committees, there are social functions, you will slowly make friends and, who knows, you might meet a woman God intends for you.
deleted_user
deleted_user

Remember, you are never alone when you are in relationship with God
dinahmorris
dinahmorris

so glad you have cheered up-these things happen-then they blow over.
deleted_user
deleted_user

Just a suggestion, but how about replacing horny with hopeful.....one step at a time there, \"Secretariat!\"
I know you\'ll find someone; be calm and cautious and honest...but s l o w l y ??
Keep me informed.
You are so worth knowing!! Take care, my Friend.
Peace&Love, Franciann
deleted_user
deleted_user

Remember what you are going through is normal after you get a divorce. I have been divorced for a very long time and I still feel the way you feel. I just want you to know I love you back!