alone
april 28th,feeling alone, and no one even care's how i feel, i know i have friends that are there for me but as far as family they don't even now i have been raped let alone being raped a total of three time, i am afraid to tell them, i am afraid they will treat me different. how do you move on after you have been raped. i need help.
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Your not alone! take your time telling them. Don\'t let anyone force you into telling anyone anything if your not ready. you need to tell them on YOUR SCHEDULE, no one elses. It took me a number of months to tell my parents. Its been two years and my parents, sister, and one cousin know and thats it. I have a very tight extended family and I still havent told any of them. It took me 5 months. I have friends who didn\'t tell their parents for many years. friends yet to tell them.
You are not alone. You have done nothing wrong and you have every right to be afraid. Im afraid too. You were hurt in the worst way possible. and its not your fault. you did nothing to deserve it. You are a survivor and stronger than you realize.people care about you and love you. a lot of people.
Sometimes people will think their parents will not approve but you might be surprised with how much they understand and care. There are some parents who won\'t care but there are parents that do. You could always give it a try.