AHHHH

Just when things seemed like they were getting better everything goes wrong. My van broke down. My oldest son has been getting in trouble at school. Then my mom starts being a bitch. the last week or so my mom has been saying all the problems my kids have are my fault because I'm a bad parent. I try so hard. I am a young mother with a disabled husband. It's not my fault my kids have behavioral problems. I can't make a kid have ADHD! I can't help it if my child out right refuses to use the potty! And truth be told she wasn't the best mom anyway. Do great moms let thier 14 year old daughters spend the night at thier 23 year old boyfriends house? Do great mothers let thier teenage daughters drink? Do they say they can't afford to buy them the pill knowing full well that they are having sex? Maybe it's not all her fault I got pregnant my senior year at 17, but she didn't do anything to stop it! And she wants to take the credit for me graduating, getting married and all the other things I've accomplished? I DON'T THINK SO!!!!! I did those things on my own and with the encouragement my grandmother gave me before her death when I was 15. If it wasn't for her God only knows where I would be right now! She lived with us and helped raise me, along with my grandpa and aunt and uncles. She couldn't even raise 2 kids herself. So where does she get off judging me?