affidavits from friends and famaly
I saw the paralegal today to sign my docs for the court hearing on weds next week. I recieved my stbx papers today and was stunned, hurt and angry. Firts she had the 25 year old write out ( its her writing this but using him) that I was the cause for the stress of her and that I had gotten her so low with verbal attacks that she saw no way out, and that I have been verbal with him and never liked him.....Blaming me and making her the victom
The Girlfriend that my stbx never liked, now slammed me the same and went as far as to attack my youngest son" he was once a sweet boy , but look what his father has turned him into" and so on
the brother in law ...very netural.being a cop but watching what he says
2 other long term friends , say i was abusive, finiancialy, verbal and physical and that I am a threat.
I was not expecting this from people that never helped me during her attempt or went throught the hell of what my son and I have been put through. They have all been fed this stuff by my stbx. I am in very mixed emotions, sad, hurt ,shocked, to just upset and angry... I am made out to be the devil and I AM THE ONE THAT SAVED HER LIFE!
The Girlfriend that my stbx never liked, now slammed me the same and went as far as to attack my youngest son" he was once a sweet boy , but look what his father has turned him into" and so on
the brother in law ...very netural.being a cop but watching what he says
2 other long term friends , say i was abusive, finiancialy, verbal and physical and that I am a threat.
I was not expecting this from people that never helped me during her attempt or went throught the hell of what my son and I have been put through. They have all been fed this stuff by my stbx. I am in very mixed emotions, sad, hurt ,shocked, to just upset and angry... I am made out to be the devil and I AM THE ONE THAT SAVED HER LIFE!
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People suck, plain and simple. Divorce is a catalyst for lies and deceit. You\'ll get through it. Chaulk these people up to stupidity and you can\'t fix that brotha!
Good Luck.
Lean on your attorney to get you through this... divorce is a war zone of mental battles, and if you focus on yourself, your inner peace, and hang onto that peace, you\'ll get through. When my painful battles came, I found that reminding myself that THIS is the reason our marriage is over (because relationships require TWO people to make it work - and 1 person cannot do the work of the other), and I tell myself that I\'m thankful that things didn\'t get so much worse (because they truly could be MUCH worse). THIS TOO SHALL PASS!