Addict behavior

T seemed to be doing so well and then........ I don't know.  This taking off without so much  as a note, cell message, or text reply is annoying.  Just reminds me of past behavior.  Never came home to celebrate Father's Day with us.  I know he's not in recovery but I know he isn't doing the hard stuff since leaving treatment.  This though - reminds me of the ol' days.  Frustrating......
Middle guy?  I know he's nursing a hangover.  Seemed to convince his dad, however, that he has sunstroke.  Maybe a combination?  All I know is that I found more wine and beer bottles in hiding places and that he was pretty lit last night.  Poor guy.  Frustrating.  I think it might be awhile before he becomes tired of being sick and tired......

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donna7455
donna7455

It\'s hard to know what is going on with T. I know it\'s a common complaint when college students come back home and are used to coming and going as they please. On the other hand, it is like old behavior, which they can slip into when they come back home. I hope it\'s just bad habits from living away from home.

I hope your middle guy chooses to ask for help soon.

Hang in there!