Acceptance of Friends
I hope i do no hurt anyone's feelings. As far as accept New Friend I have more than i can respond to now. I wan to read and answe each and I wish i could read everyone and I do read as much as i can but it seem s I am sick so often, that i miss being able to respond. As many of you respond to me and gin me the strength I so need. For all of you I am so thankful to eachbof you
I hope one tha request that i become their ner friend i feel i would be letting you down in that i would not be able to reach out to you as i could,, to all my friend i have now i hope you under stand when i don't respon between my good days and bad days. Each of you mean the world to me
My love is always in my heart for each of you
Love, Sandi#3
I hope one tha request that i become their ner friend i feel i would be letting you down in that i would not be able to reach out to you as i could,, to all my friend i have now i hope you under stand when i don't respon between my good days and bad days. Each of you mean the world to me
My love is always in my heart for each of you
Love, Sandi#3
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We love you Sandi. We all do what we can, when we can....and that\'s enough. It\'s always good to hear from you but please don\'t feel like you\'re letting anyone down during the times you are unable to write. There are no expectations here....only love and compassion and understanding. You mean the world to us too!
Take care my friend and know you are thought of often and always with great affection~~Teri
I hear you and I agree with Teri. We do what we can do. I too try to respond but there are times when I am so overwhelmed I can\'t keep up. The important thing is not to feel guilty. We do what we can do. We know we can come to FMO with no strings attached. We know we are loved and understood.
Love you, Marlene
I agree with Teri and Marlene. No expectations here..Just love and acceptance. Love you too! Linda
Sandi, I understand and have had these feelings too but when I need help I find more than enough moms that meet my needs. As Joanie says this place is a village. We all do what we can and you have had more than your share of illness and pain.
Sending you love and prayers,
Leda
Don\'t worry, Sandi, there are no expectations or rules we have to follow. When you write us it\'s nice, but if you don\'t, there is no blame.
As the membership grows here at FMO, it is extremely, if not impossible to keep up. Just do the best you can, that\'s why I do, but I know I get behind and miss journals and hugs and stuff, but when one of us gets behind it seems another one steps up to the plate so that no one ever seems alone or neglected. Your Friend, BarbaraWawa
Sandi, we all understand. You are dealing with a lot of pain and sickness, on top of your grief. You just know we miss you and hope you will feel better one day. Until then, do whatever you can to make yourself get better. You are very much loved!!!
((((HUGS))))....Julia
What you are able to do is always enough... more than enough... Time to receive for you so absorb all the wonderful healing energy that is surrounding you.
Healing hugs,
XO Joanie
Sandi, you have been invaluable to me and I do understand when you say that you cannot keep up! While I needed this place every moment of that first year of my son\'s death, I don\'t anymore and while I want to be there for everyone, I do work a full time job. ALWAYS take the time for yourself first. We are always here for you and know that you are here for us. Hugs, Belinda
I am only on this site 2 maybe 3times aweek. Alot of the times I just read others I post. I takes me longer to get back to people but everyone here understands.
What ever you need to do just do it.... we are here for you when you need us.
Hugs Penny
Thanks for you understanding. Sandi#13 love Ken forever. Mom