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Me , i have been through so much. Getting married to the man i thought was the man of my dreams. instead he turned out to be a nitemare. When we met he swept me off my feet having been on my own 10yrs previous. He soon wanted me to have sex with strangers for his kicks and had a lot of control over me. Then it was the texts i found between him and my daughter. I had so much to deal with. The betrayal of the 2 people i loved the most. my 4 year marriage to this man and my 27 yr old recovering drug addict daughter, who i have given a lot of support. I loved them both and tried to forgive them both, but i couldnt. They both blamed each other and the truth i will never know. I will only know and remember the messages i read which were sexual. I have since tried to repair and continue to help my daughter and have seperated from my husband, who i have taken back a few times . falling for his crying and excuses. we are now seperated again and this time i am trying hard not to let him worm his way back. It is difficult as i go through so many emotions each day. my goal is to get help and stay strong. Help my daughter and divorce my husband. I just need the strength now to make that decision and actually stick to it. without looking back
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Im sorry about what youre going thru. Sounds like a lot of feelings of betrayal. I understand. I am dealing with those very same feelings. When will it get easier? I wish I had thatanswer. But all we can do is offer our support. Hugs to you.
You can do this....and I\'m gonna help you! You are not alone.....
You\'ve had a hard time with this man. It is difficult to cut someone out of your life but you can do it. Try to stay focused on what you need and not what he wants. I left a 33 year marriage and it wasn\'t easy but I did it. Stay busy set goals and do the best you can.
You are doing great so far. Plus you are gettinf stronger everyday. We are doing this together and will continue to do it together. I won\'t let your hand go until you are better. Let\'s keep fighting. Together.
What Debra said, you\'re not alone. We\'re here for you. *hugs*
Stay strong.....believe in yourself and vent anytime you need to. We all want to see you get better.
What a difficult and terrible situation to be caught in. I pray that you find the strength you need here to begin the healing process. This does NOT sound like a man you need or should want in your life, but our hearts are more difficult than our heads sometimes. Stay strong and reach out for support!