About to lose it.

We're back home and the shit has hit the fan.
My son's school is trying to label HIM as the problem at school, despite the fact that I have asked them repeatedly to separate the two, but got stalwarted at every turn. Finally my husband went up there and gave them what for, and go himself banned from not only the elementary school campus but the middle school campus as well. Then I find out that 4 people from the school had my son in a room all alone with them telling him that he's the problem and that he's the bully and that he acts just like his dad! I'm so mad I could eat nails and shit ice cream!
And as if that wasn't bad enough, we go to get our dog. He was temporarily staying at a family members house while our house was being rebuilt. She refused to let us take our dog home, physically rushed and pushed my husband away from the dog and acted like a nut. Not to mention she has 15 dogs of various sizes jammed into a small house in the city all while caring for a disabled adult that has mental retardation and brittle bones, and god only knows if those big ass pit bulls are jumping all over the poor guy! She's a hoarder of pets, that is pretty much obvious.
I've just had enough of feeling like I'm fighting the world! I have enough fighting with my body on a daily basis. All I can do is pray on both issues and hope to keep my sanity in the mix.