A Very Sad Reality...
That after being snipped and sniped at... time after time after time. I should realize all men must be that way. I want to believe there is a kinder, gentler soul.... one who actually wants a "relationship"... where TWO people do care and accept each other and work together making each other happier . But I am resigning myself that the entire free world does open up and say exactly what they think at that moment... however brutally or untactfully it may be. Five minutes into silence come the apologies and excuses. (For me, the damage is already done... again.)
I am SO VERY TIRED of doing all that is asked when it is asked.... Don't get me wrong... I have been getting the thank yous and I love you dears, but when they are tucked in so many "sorry, but I just..." after the sniping and attitude, to me they seem empty.
I am tired of all the emptiness. :(
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You sound like an incredible person - stay strong
I know things will happen for you
sending hugs
I'm sorry to hear that you are going through a rough time. I think the right person is out there for you. You just have to be yourself and just live your day to day life until you come across them. But I really hope things look up for you soon. hugs
Not all men are like this. You deserve much better. Hugs.
As I know you know, sometimes we need to find ways to fill the emptiness ourselves. Of course a loving relationship is wonderful. However I have made the mistake of putting my hopes of happiness on my partner. That doesn’t work. It needs to start with us. Two full people can create a full relationship. It doesn’t fill those people. Imho. Love
finallyawakenow said what I would have said. You really need to find the love that is already inside you but just covered by a cloud like the sun on a rainy day. We tend to create blocks that hide that love. Your EHA book will show you how to remove those blocks.
We all make choices in this life and we can choose to focus on the negative or we can choose to see things differently. People are like magnates. If we are negative then we attract more of the same. It's called the universal law of attraction......... https://www.huffingtonpost.com/carla-schesser/the-law-of-attraction-exp_b_8430270.html
Likewise, If we are positive, then we attract more of the same.
It takes practice but I can guarantee, it will work for you because it works for me every time!
God Bless
There are good guys out there. My friend found one. I pray you and I find one for each of us too.