A Little Update
My Dear DS Sister, It has been way too long since I gave you an update. I don’t even know where to start. As many of you know I have been working at Kohl’s since the middle of Dec. I was hired as “Holiday Help”, but I am still there. The hours have been cut way down. The hours that I do work have been crummy. Late nights till like ten or eleven. I really can’t handle that since I am such a morning person. I can’t expect them to make exceptions for me. It would not be fair to everyone else. Before I got the job at Kohl’s I had interviewed with the Tennis pro at a country club in The Woodlands. It was supposed to be 8-12 mornings, Mon-Fri. Would have been perfect for me. He told me the job would not start till the end of Jan. He said I would be perfect for the job. Since it wasn’t going to start till the end of Jan. I decided to work at Kohl’s till then. I kept in constant touch with him. He kept putting me off till he finally told me that one of his workers was out sick and he wasn’t sure she was coming back. Well guess what. She came back. So he really was jumping the gun by putting an ad out there and interviewing. Just my luck. So I am looking again. I like Kohl’s, but not the hours. Plus it really isn’t enough money. Something I have looked into doing is being an Independent Closing agent. Title closing. You work for several title companies doing remote closings, like on refinancing and such. You go to there houses or meet them at a Starbucks or something. When I refinanced my house I met the closing agent at a Starbucks to sign the papers. You get anywhere from $90 to $150 per closing. The more title companies you work with the more closings you get and the more money you make. You have to become a Notary. Just thinking about it right now. Well Christmas was nice. We were all at my son and daughter in law’s. Of course seeing Christmas through the eyes of children is wonderful. Didn’t do anything special for New Years. I had to work till 6 on New Years eve and was dead tired. Went to be before Midnight. Then had to work New Years Day. I hope you all saw the pictures of the kids and the rest of my family. A couple of weeks before Christmas, Frank, (my life partner) went in for surgery on his corroded artery. It was clogged with plaque. So I guess they did a roto rooter thing. He was just in the hospital for two days I think. Did very well after that. Then about two weeks after New Years, he went in to get two stents put in his heart. They do this by going in through the groin. That was just an overnight thing. He is doing very well on that also. Next he has to get a stent in his leg. Whewww. We had a very cold Dec. Went down in the 20’s and even the teens for a little while. It has been very nice though now. 60’s and 70’s and sunny, but that is about to changes. A rain storm coming tomorrow with colder weather behind it. Here in Texas people say, “If you don’t like the weather, just wait a minute”. We all have been worried and have missed Julie. As it turns out I chatted with her a few times on the chat thing. I hope she doesn’t mind my telling you all this, but she is having another surgery on Feb 1st. She didn’t go into detail, but something to do with her intestines. She said she had a very nice Christmas and Nick’s was magical. Nick is doing great. She said she misses journaling, but she said the words just won’t come. Julie if you read this, please know we all love you and miss you. Love and hugs to all my wonderful DS Sisters, Anita.
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I always get excited when you write a journal.. as I love reading them so much and catching up with how you are tackling things.. The best thing is to know that you continue to be in remission, regardless of the challenges and stresses around work etc. this is so encouraging to those of us who are still being treated. In the UK women retire at 60, men at 65.. though they are having to raise this now to raise this now as so few people are working and so many are reaching retirement.. I always thought we paid for our own pensions whilst we were working and it came as a surprise to learn that in fact we were paying taxies for other\'s pensions and other\'s are paying for ours... sounds like a con to me..
Thanks for letting us know about Julie.. she is so missed and we all love her and her family so much.. but we do understand how things go with her now. Hurts me loads to think of her not being as she would like to be.. when she is so wonderful..
Hoping loads that this year finds you working in the perfect \'Anita job\' With all the effort you put into finding one you surly deserve for it to be there now.. I believe you are right not to settle for what doesn\'t suit you..
Only the best to you.. with love and a hug.. xxx
Thank you so much Inka. Your comments are always so encouraging. I don\'t mean to sound ungrateful that I have been cancer free for two years. I am soooooooooooo thankful. Yes, I am hoping 2010 will be a better year, job wise for me than 2009. I just need to find my niche.
I meant to say that when I went to the doctor last she set up a mamo for me, at this age and considering the OVCA she wants me to have one every year. I got a little nervous because the doctor there wanted to take some extra pictures, because she thought she saw something. I did not get the results yet. I will post when I do.
I will be wishing for the best news of this latest development... hope you hear it soon and can put your fears behind you.. I am about to take a sleeping pill.. only had one twice in my entire life.. gotta do something.. sweet dreams.. xxx
Dear Anita
Thanks for the update on Julie, I was hoping that she was too busy to write...Please don`t get too upset about the job at the tennis shop. I know there`s something out there for you and the title company job sounds great, I am also an early morning person, so I can imagine how hard it is to work late at night. Most importantly, your health is GREAT! Please send Frank my best and try to remain strong. Lots of love,
xxLinda
Hi Anita, I, too, love it when you write a journal. I\'m glad you had a good Christmas and that Frank\'s medical adventures went well. Heart troubles are always scary but so often they can be fixed. I\'m glad you still have the Kohls job and I know you are always looking so perhaps something better will turn up. Our temps were in the teens this morning but it\'s the first day in weeks that we have had bright blue skies. Sure helps the mood lift. They want me to have yearly mammograms too. Generally, it\'s good news if they don\'t call right away with results. Hopefully all is well. Much love, Janet
It is so nice to hear from you. Kohl\'s is one of my favorite places to shop as they have such great sales. I wish they would give you better hours to work. Hoping you get something you like better. I seen on the news last night you are getting some real bad weather. It is amazing how weird this winter has been in the south.
I love your photos you posted of Christmas! They are so adorable and can you believe it was a year ago we were waiting for our grand child to be born. Where did the time go?
Thanks for the update on Julie. She has been in my prayers and it is such a relief to know that she is okay.
Loads of healing prayers ot Frank also. Sounds like he has been through so much lately. Is he feeling better and more energy from the stints?
Big big hugs to you Anita full of love!
Beth
Big big hugs to you Anita.....
I\'m sorry I didn\'t respond to you sooner my friend. My computer stinks. LOL
I\'m glad to hear that things are going good for you well except for the tennis ro being a butt head thing. LOL
2010 is going to be your year. You will find that job you want and they will hire you on the spot.
Thanks for the update on Julie. I will say a prayer for her tonight.
I will say a prayer for all of my DS sisters.
Love and hugs,
Michelle