A little less emotional

A few days later, I've calmed down a bit.  When I talked to my husband today, I told him don't spend any money!  (Which, to him, means spend only the minimum on the essentials).  He says OK.
I'll probably still set up the separate checking account, couching it in such a way that I've read (and actually, I have) that having a separate account earmarked for the bills helps manage the $.  That way, I'm not turning it into a fight (though it's tempting).
Anyway, I feel more even-keeled.  Though my appetite is off (but calorically, that's good).  I'm enjoying watching the Olympics & went to the library (my favorite place) today.