A big fight
We ended up fighting both of us....I think it was my fault for breaking our friendship...I asked him for evidence if was really ill he agreed to provide me for the evidence then a week later he said it was non of my business and that he cant be friends with someone who demands such personal things...he offended me big time, wth! i bought things that are over 500 euros and i was fooled by him..he used me and now i lost someone who i thought was a friend, its no wonder my parents lock me in the house it because there r evil things outside there...i gave up would rather be at home verbally abused than being fooled by a guy
One night I prayed to God, I asked could he please remove my enemies from my life, and before you knew it I started losing friends.
One night I prayed to God, I asked could he please remove my enemies from my life, and before you knew it I started losing friends.
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He wasn\'t really a friend. I think you did the right thing. Even though it\'s hard to admit he was using you, and it hurts, you are much better off without him in your life. Not everybody is like that; don\'t give up on people. You will make friends who care about you regardless of the money you have. {{{{hugs}}}}
Viral he was using you. You never learned to be around other people that your parents didn\'t know. I made so many mistakes trying to make friends when I moved out because I never learned to make good judgement about people or how to socialize at the right age I was. You are looking for someone to like you and spend time with you so a lot times people you first meet will take advantage of your generousity by talking your gift and money. If you don\'t have money they take your time like babysitting or asking you to cook for them or what ever they need. It still it is taking advantage. I know you feel guilty because you don\'t how to deal with it. You felt that he treat you nice at times and now you feel it must be something you did wrong because he says you sholdn\'t ask him for receipts or to pay back. This is a controlling relationship. This guy is using you and controlling you so that you doubt yourself. What you have is an abusive realtionship. Abuse doesn\'t have to be hitting or violence. If someone controls you and you end up losing your self our what your feel is your moral were, don\'t give up your values for someone else. It hard right now because you don\'t know who you are. You do have morals and basic do and don\'t of what people should do and not do. We have one thing in common that I didn\'t or was able to socialize or learn to be a teenager cause I was always at home never with kids my age out in the social scene. Like you I got burned whan I started trying to find friends. I got used alot and I never said no. work on yourself, feeling comfortable in social events. Not every one is a bar fly. I didn\'t do that. Do what you are comfortable. Try to join a social group that do the same things you like. or just one thing. For instant if you like bowling look online and see if they have a group bowling for young adult ages 18 to 20\'s or whatever. I know your emotional about the this guy now, but I have to say again, a real friend rarely asks so one for their friend to buy them something, usually they ask them for a favor something that doesn\'t have to do with money but not over and over again either. There are some really wonderful people out there but you do have to find them. Try to look for someone how like what you likes. Try to do what I gave you. I so sorry that this guy did this to you. Watch out for these kind of people. There are pretty easy to spot now. since you had a guy who used you, don\'t become friends with those who do stuff like that. Wait to give people where you live. Just start with your cellphone or email. Then make times to meet until you feel someone is geniune.
Viral he was using you. You never learned to be around other people that your parents didn\'t know. I made so many mistakes trying to make friends when I moved out because I never learned to make good judgement about people or how to socialize at the right age I was. You are looking for someone to like you and spend time with you so a lot times people you first meet will take advantage of your generousity by talking your gift and money. If you don\'t have money they take your time like babysitting or asking you to cook for them or what ever they need. It still it is taking advantage. I know you feel guilty because you don\'t how to deal with it. You felt that he treat you nice at times and now you feel it must be something you did wrong because he says you sholdn\'t ask him for receipts or to pay back. This is a controlling relationship. This guy is using you and controlling you so that you doubt yourself. What you have is an abusive realtionship. Abuse doesn\'t have to be hitting or violence. If someone controls you and you end up losing your self our what your feel is your moral were, don\'t give up your values for someone else. It hard right now because you don\'t know who you are. You do have morals and basic do and don\'t of what people should do and not do. We have one thing in common that I didn\'t or was able to socialize or learn to be a teenager cause I was always at home never with kids my age out in the social scene. Like you I got burned whan I started trying to find friends. I got used alot and I never said no. work on yourself, feeling comfortable in social events. Not every one is a bar fly. I didn\'t do that. Do what you are comfortable. Try to join a social group that do the same things you like. or just one thing. For instant if you like bowling look online and see if they have a group bowling for young adult ages 18 to 20\'s or whatever. I know your emotional about the this guy now, but I have to say again, a real friend rarely asks so one for their friend to buy them something, usually they ask them for a favor something that doesn\'t have to do with money but not over and over again either. There are some really wonderful people out there but you do have to find them. Try to look for someone how like what you likes. Try to do what I gave you. I so sorry that this guy did this to you. Watch out for these kind of people. There are pretty easy to spot now. since you had a guy who used you, don\'t become friends with those who do stuff like that. Wait to give people where you live. Just start with your cellphone or email. Then make times to meet until you feel someone is geniune.
Viral he was using you. You never learned to be around other people that your parents didn\'t know. I made so many mistakes trying to make friends when I moved out because I never learned to make good judgement about people or how to socialize at the right age I was. You are looking for someone to like you and spend time with you so a lot times people you first meet will take advantage of your generousity by talking your gift and money. If you don\'t have money they take your time like babysitting or asking you to cook for them or what ever they need. It still it is taking advantage. I know you feel guilty because you don\'t how to deal with it. You felt that he treat you nice at times and now you feel it must be something you did wrong because he says you sholdn\'t ask him for receipts or to pay back. This is a controlling relationship. This guy is using you and controlling you so that you doubt yourself. What you have is an abusive realtionship. Abuse doesn\'t have to be hitting or violence. If someone controls you and you end up losing your self our what your feel is your moral were, don\'t give up your values for someone else. It hard right now because you don\'t know who you are. You do have morals and basic do and don\'t of what people should do and not do. We have one thing in common that I didn\'t or was able to socialize or learn to be a teenager cause I was always at home never with kids my age out in the social scene. Like you I got burned whan I started trying to find friends. I got used alot and I never said no. work on yourself, feeling comfortable in social events. Not every one is a bar fly. I didn\'t do that. Do what you are comfortable. Try to join a social group that do the same things you like. or just one thing. For instant if you like bowling look online and see if they have a group bowling for young adult ages 18 to 20\'s or whatever. I know your emotional about the this guy now, but I have to say again, a real friend rarely asks so one for their friend to buy them something, usually they ask them for a favor something that doesn\'t have to do with money but not over and over again either. There are some really wonderful people out there but you do have to find them. Try to look for someone how like what you likes. Try to do what I gave you. I so sorry that this guy did this to you. Watch out for these kind of people. There are pretty easy to spot now. since you had a guy who used you, don\'t become friends with those who do stuff like that. Wait to give people where you live. Just start with your cellphone or email. Then make times to meet until you feel someone is geniune.
Viral he was using you. You never learned to be around other people that your parents didn\'t know. I made so many mistakes trying to make friends when I moved out because I never learned to make good judgement about people or how to socialize at the right age I was. You are looking for someone to like you and spend time with you so a lot times people you first meet will take advantage of your generousity by talking your gift and money. If you don\'t have money they take your time like babysitting or asking you to cook for them or what ever they need. It still it is taking advantage. I know you feel guilty because you don\'t how to deal with it. You felt that he treat you nice at times and now you feel it must be something you did wrong because he says you sholdn\'t ask him for receipts or to pay back. This is a controlling relationship. This guy is using you and controlling you so that you doubt yourself. What you have is an abusive realtionship. Abuse doesn\'t have to be hitting or violence. If someone controls you and you end up losing your self our what your feel is your moral were, don\'t give up your values for someone else. It hard right now because you don\'t know who you are. You do have morals and basic do and don\'t of what people should do and not do. We have one thing in common that I didn\'t or was able to socialize or learn to be a teenager cause I was always at home never with kids my age out in the social scene. Like you I got burned whan I started trying to find friends. I got used alot and I never said no. work on yourself, feeling comfortable in social events. Not every one is a bar fly. I didn\'t do that. Do what you are comfortable. Try to join a social group that do the same things you like. or just one thing. For instant if you like bowling look online and see if they have a group bowling for young adult ages 18 to 20\'s or whatever. I know your emotional about the this guy now, but I have to say again, a real friend rarely asks so one for their friend to buy them something, usually they ask them for a favor something that doesn\'t have to do with money but not over and over again either. There are some really wonderful people out there but you do have to find them. Try to look for someone how like what you likes. Try to do what I gave you. I so sorry that this guy did this to you. Watch out for these kind of people. There are pretty easy to spot now. since you had a guy who used you, don\'t become friends with those who do stuff like that. Wait to give people where you live. Just start with your cellphone or email. Then make times to meet until you feel someone is geniune.