A Better Place????
Sometimes I wonder if Andrea is in a better place, I wonder whats it like, if she is happy again, does she wish I were there as I do her here. People says she in a better place but no one really knows. Do we say this just to rationalize our minds after loosing a Love one? Or do we say this because we feel if that person cannot be here then they should be somewhere living again and enjoying a new life and just waiting for us to unite again. I like to think she is in a better place but I also feel the better place is with me, selfish yes I admit and I'm damn proud of it. Moving forward is a challenge enough but to feel Love again is a even greater challenge, but keep in mind that it is a challenge but not impossible. I'm just asking that you try not to isolate yourself from the world or those who care and/or those want to show their care, it's just not a healthy decision in the grieving process.
This is the week we were told to prepare for the worst, she was gone within 3 weeks
I just wish the very best each and everyone of you in your path to move forward.
T.
This is the week we were told to prepare for the worst, she was gone within 3 weeks
I just wish the very best each and everyone of you in your path to move forward.
T.
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I often wonder the same thing. Where exactly is Mom now.....is she in a better place? I certainly hope so but no one really knows.
Well at least resting in peace is what I\'m really hoping for.
nice thought. We all want our loved ones to rest in peace! Wish I had more answers.....Mom promised to give me a \"sign\" after she passed, however I have not received one yet.
Well that can be very difficult to determine because you may have already had it or it may be there already but you haven\'t acknowledge it yet. Take a look around with an open mind and try and see if there was anything significant that has happened that may have missed. If you don\'t see or feel anything then just keep hope alive.
I like your positive outlook. I notice rainbows,flowers and butterflies...makes me think of Mom\'s beauty. Perhaps this is her way of telling me she\'s still with me? I will try to be happy as a tribute to her. Thanks for reminding me that hope is very much alive.
no problem, keep in touch
Will do=)
I think we all wonder what will happen after death...there is only one way to find out and I am not ready for that. I hope it\'s everything and more one can even imagine.
hang in there Tonio