A bedwetters routine

It keeps getting weirder. The new routine surrounding my being a bedwetter is the same as my 4 year old brothers before he was able to get dry at night. My status in family is sinking to a new low. Every morning after I awaken I have to report to kitchen when for inspection. Someone checks my diaper.  If it is wet they mark a big "W" with magic marker on the bedwetting chart.  If it is dry they put sticky star on that day's spot. Everyone is supposed to clap and congratulate me on being dry. Have you ever been praised by a 4 year old for having a dry diaper? Being dry is almost as embarrassing as being wet.  But no worry.  Wet diapers are the rule most mornings so far.  Not many stars on the bedetting chart.
The evening routine is equally upsetting.  I have to report to get ready for bed as soon as the dinner dishes and kitchen are cleaned.  Thats around 7:30.  Along with my 2  year old brother I am diapered and put in pjs.  Mom says there will be no exceptions to the routine.  She has said it doesn't matter if we have company over in the evening or if we are traveling and visiting others.  I fear sooner or later someone either my brothers friends or my cousins will see me in my diapered status.   I sure ain't having any friends come over in the evening.  Sleepovers are out of the question if I have a choice.