Today I got the news that our friend had her baby. we had gotten pregnant only 4 weeks apart. I completely broke down. Please dont get me wrong, I am so very happy her baby is well and everything is okay but the thought of her there enjoing her new little one is breaking my heart, I will never hold my child in my arms never celebrate his birth. It's now been five months since our loss but it still feels so fresh. Everyone expects me to be over it by now, including my husband. I just feel so hopeless.

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I will pray for your pain to lessen ~ you don\'t have to OVER it ~ that\'s just not something you get over (not that I have to tell you that!!) GOD BLESS YOU!!!
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I\'m so sorry I had to go through the same thing. In time I hope your pain will lessen ((hugs))
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It\'s the same with my sister. We got pregnant 1 month apart and her baby is due next week. I am happy for her as well but am also upset that she gets to hold her little one. But you will never get over. That litlle bundle will be with you forever. But hopefully in time your pain will lesson and happiness will fill the space. (Hugs)