Feeling a bit better today.  Haven't confronted Hubby about the panties.  I tried, but could bring myself to do it.  I took him in to work this morning so I would have a car today.  Then I went for a 12 mile run.  I took 2 and a half hours, so not great time, but not too bad I don't think.  Feeling a bit tired, had to get up at 4:30 to take him in and started my run in downtown Columbus at about 5:30.  Really quiet that time of day.