Last night was better.  Hubby had a talk with his boss yesterday. Didn't really improve anything, but made him feel better.  And his boss had to double up on his work yesterday for another sick worker (if they could get fully staffed this wouldn't happen, but his dept. has a worse emplyee retention record than McDonalds), and he made several large mistakes.  This seemed to make hubby feel much better.  Had a good but exhausting Choir practice.  Three hours, most of which was spend standing, trying to get ready for the Contada on Sunday.  We have an orchestra and a praise band.  Anyway, came home from that and baked a batch of cookies and slept really well.  So I feel much better today.  I really thank everyone for their kind words and their patience with me.