OK...so this past Thursday was fun!! Her and I went to the courthouse and saw the Family Court Liason, she's the one who helps people do a self-help divorce. Because we have no attorneys and we are in agreement on everything we get to go before the magistrate instead of the judge. So it's set for July 26th. We will meet at 9:30 in the morning to become single again. I hurt even saying it. I haven't asked off for that day yet, but I am thinking about it very seriously. Not sure how I will handle this by myself. I'm gonna be a basket case. I am already hurting, just talking about it makes me wanna rip my heart out and just hand it to her and say "here stomp some more"...I'm gonna need mucho help that day and probably the night before....to all my friends, especially anyone local...I might could really need to get together with some of you on Friday night. So if you're interested...let me know...I know I could use the friends...in closing....HELP!!!!!!!! I hurt so badly, I am so lonely, so depressed, so frustrated, so in pain I just don't know what to do next...or how to act or what to think....
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sweetie im here for you if you need to talk and if i lived locally i would be there for you please know that and im so sorry to that.
Hi there......... we will do what we can for you- but know, in the end, its a new beginning. I will send you a message with my phone numbers so you have someone to call- *smiles* look- you already have two women there for you :-) See what a new beginning it can be?
The pain will get easier as time goes by. Part of the phases of divorce that you go through.
Hi My New Friend - Sorry about Thursday and all of your pain, I\'m right there with you. It all just seems to be such a bitch. I have a hard time understanding how as humans we can put each other through this craziness. Talk to anytime, I care. XX Michelle
Kevin, what you are going through now would be hard for anyone. People do make it through, tho, and you will too. You have friends here. If you can, try and plan something for after that, for the weekend, maybe. Just get yourself past the toughest part and then things have to start getting better.
We are here if you need us.