Well over the weeked I had deciede that the agreement that my ex and I had was to controlling. So had called a lawyer and they told me to tear it up because it didn't mean anything. I was at the point that I was tired of him controlling and I wanted a life back. I need to fix a relationship between my mom and I so I went to work things out with her and all of sudden my ex pulled up in front of my parents house and called me. I grabbed my son and took off hoping I would find a police officer in site. Thank god one was sitting in a parking lot checking for speeders. I had tried to lose them. But didn't work.. he called me and told me to pull over now. Pulled into the cop and he had followed me right into them told the officer that he was following me and stalking me. The officer had then dispatched 3 more officers to come out and my ex told them well this is the agreement and they said that I have the right to tear it up any time that I want. He lives 20min away from me and I was scared for my life that day. He doesn't care about it he just wants what he wants. That night I was scared and didn't come home until late then I looked my self inside with no lights on except for a night light with my son. The next moring officers came out because he called the cops and told them that our son was in danger which was a bunch of bull. I had the police come inside my home and inspected and there was no sign of danger. I had plenty of food for my child and he was happy playing. Monday came around was up at the court house a 7 am waited in line for an hour and half to get pass sercutiy at this point I was safe. got all of the paperwork filled out and when that was done it was a sign of relief but waited for almost 2 hours was crazy. thought I was able to play with my son but he fell alseep. But knowing that the wait was going to be a while and trying to find things to pass time. When the jugde called me I was nervous but i was able to speek why i needed protected for me and my son. I was granted that and i now that the next two weeks is going to be not harrassing or stalking me. I am able to calm my nerves down a look and starting looking for a better life for me and my children. Hopefully I won't loose my son for the things that I did but am trying to get my life back in order again. and prove that i am trying to live a better life again and for my children also. They mean so much to me right now that I love them.  Now I can go to work and not worry about any threatening phone calls or text messages from him.