well it was good while it lasted! Had about 10 good days! Woke up this morning hands swollen and achy all over! Just glad it lasted that long. I was impressed! Not as bad as before hope it doesnt get that way but i'm also not getting rest i need.  Youngest daughter moved back in with baby and he wears me out! 19months and all boy! Can't get her to understand i have to rest and cant always be chasing him, told her today she was lazy! I know some of it is depression for her but she has to take care of him. She lost her job and can't find another plus she's going to school and no way to pay for babysitter so she stresses about that. Baby's sperm donor is a jerk and a half and useless. I keep telling her things will work out but sometimes i wonder.  oh well nobody to talk to about things so i'm trying to write to let it out instead of holding in. I'm bad about holding things in til they blow up! They say get the stress out of your life but has anyone learned how to do that? if so please tell me the secret! take care all!