Just a quick check in STBX (ROOMIE) is very anxious for me to leave, but at least we are being civil again.  I am waiting to hear about a couple of job oppportunities in NC before I decide where I am to live in relation to my sweetheart in NC.  Is it an apt close to her, or perhaps 100 miles from her?  Or maybe right here where i live, 1100 miles away?  The last one is the worst case, long distance relationships are very fragile.I now call NC home and where I live "roomie's house"  It is her place now, I am just a boarder saving my dimes so that I can move.  I WILL be going to NC if at all possible.The job offers will determine a lot about my life near term.  I know what I want, now it is a question of whether or not God will allow it, or at least not intefere with it :)The final date for the divorce is looming closer every day.  Closure will be good, a era completed and history. I do not plan to attend Aug 27, but that could change. Sweet love for my NC woman is ever my best friend.  I am thankful for every day that she and I are in love.  Grandkids were over this weekend and we had a barbecue and then went swimming for a while.  That was nice!Thank the Lord for what i have today for tomorrow it could all be gone!