Got a new set of teeth today. My first thing to be really happy about since she asked for a divorce on March 25, 20007. Its strange, even my wife seemed happier. Maybe it was finally having that "last" discussion on what was wrong with me and why I ruined the relationship. I did more than my share, I will admit. She called me argumentative, and of course, I said "No I am not" Her immediate response was: "See, you are doing it now!" HAHA!! She reeled me in on that one.
She is a good and kind lady with a deep regard for others and a kind spirit, but sometimes, I just feel piled on.
She is a good and kind lady with a deep regard for others and a kind spirit, but sometimes, I just feel piled on.
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Hi Honkwomp:)
I am glad that you found something to be happy about today! That is how you have to take it, one day at a time.. I always try to remember that it took two to have the marriage and it takes two to end one..
I got my divorce papers ready today and will be filing soon.. I want to go ahead and get it over, so that I can have some peace in my life..
Try to concentrate on the things that you like about yourself.. You seem to have a kind heart toward your wife and that is extraordinary, considering the circumstances.. Kimmee
Oh what a disaster tonight after I left that. We were both doing fine and then I made the mistake of walking into her room (her computer sewing room) and saw her in Second Life on a bed with sex pose balls but the guy that owned it had not shown yet. I got absolutely infuriated. Since her gall bladder surgery she has spent around 80 percent of her waking hours on the game. She was doing that before. In fact, she told me that if I had not bothered her about the game, she was gonna wait a bit. She expects me to be the calm individual when I see stuff like that. Like it should not matter. Oh it\'s nothing she says. We came to the agreement that until I was out of the house, that kind of stuff was off limits. sigh. So, I started a big argument and the entire day\'s progress was destroyed.
It\'s like I just wanted to make her miserable again. Just once, I would like to see some emotion instead of being some garbage being tossed aside
I have all but given up on seeing any emotion, what so ever, from my husband. he is not capable and it sounds as if your wife is not either. It is normal to want her to hurt like we are, but it is probably not going to happen.. I have never heard of that game, but it does not sound healthy to be having that type of thing on a computer. I hope that you were able to rest tonight:) kimmee