I came home tonight and checked my email. My friend gave birth to a healthy boy this morning 8lb 13oz. The email announced his birth and included pictures. I do think the birth of a baby is a miracle and I am truly happy for her. But I feel like crap..... my baby should be here too. My baby was to arrive in October. I feel like the wind has been knocked out of me, utterly defeated and dejected. It has certainly changed my mood this evening. I'm a crying mess. I know this is just my emotions on this news and I will have my game face on tomorrow morning. But tonight it really sucks.
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sometimes i write them back to congratulate, but more often i quietly send a present for the child. that way i\'ve acknowledged the arrival of their precious gift, but haven\'t had to say too much. you will feel better tomorrow, especially if a good night\'s rest is involved.
Longing, I identify with you. Over the sumer my SIL gave birth to a healthy baby no problems. These births hurt so much, when we desparately want a baby of our own. Honor your sadness. Take great self care. We\'re here for you!