I'm so tired. I was in a car accident last week and I'm still recovering from that. I realize that I am in a caretaker role big time. It is fine to take care of my kids--that is the nature of being a mother to young children. But my husband is a fully fuctional adult; he just chooses not to take care of himself and burdens me with everything unnecessarily. I am dangerously close to burn-out (maybe I already am burned-out). I need some time to take care of myself, but other than this site, that time seems never to come. How do I make myself a priority over the needs of a disabled child? It just seems wrong, but on the other hand, if I'm not healthy, I can't help my kids either. I just so wich I had a supportive husband and partner instead of another child/dependent. Sigh...