Have got the health visitor coming today because i phoned her in tears to say what had happened. I hope she can offer support. I'm worried that she may try to convince me of the positives or something because that will not help just upset me.I mean what can be good about my baby being left with this psycho. He seems to work in cycles so it could be months of facade before he starts on the next woman again. Still considering going to police if only to make them aware of the events that have happened to all 3 women. Even if they don't press charges or it doesn't go to court i will have done the right thing and got it on record incase in the future another women contact them so they will be believed and i can give evidence for them.