Have been in court for the last two days. It was a nightmare at first. I felt i wasn't being treated well by the system or being taken seriously. Their attitude seems to be to "play happy families" The consensuse seemed to be outside court rm. violent men still have rights to have access and eventually unsupervised! Unbeleivable I could not see it responsible to comprimise on my child's safety ! I felt bullied.But i fought my corner and emphasised my concerns for my son's  safety. We will have to wait now.