My friend got back to me, fully understanding of my explanation. She was more concerned that in sharing intimate details about each other's lives that she would upset my partner...Hell no, I told her, he hates talking about anything involving emotions and stuff like that. Knowing that I have this outlet is a blessing as he sees it...LOL.

And about the 'gay' thing which wasn't an issue for her anyway, she pretty much figured that part out. Said most straight guys aren't in touch with their feeling, and thinks that I am. Although I have a long way to go, I feel complimented by that. She makes it easy, on the other hand for me to open up, as is the case with a lot of you. You've made it comfortable for me to get a lot of my chest over the last few weeks. I'm really thankful for that. With BIG hugs to all,
R.