wow..
Wow.. Just sitting here...have been ignoring all my ex's attempts to talk...its been great. Untill a certain song came on my Comp... Dont Cry - Guns N Roses...This was our first song...first kissed to this song...reminds me of a very...very happy time of my life. Just shocked that listening to just now...can mess me up this bad..bah
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I hate when that happens!! You get so strong, feel like you could overcome it and then things as simple as a song or picture tear you down to where you started.. =( i\'m going through it too hun
Man..i love that song...now im thinking about things..errr. anyways keep your ground and dont let her walk in and out of your life when its her call... much love *HUGS* .. always here..
Yeah, music can envoke emotion that\'s for sure. It\'s a roller coaster so...you\'ll get there eventually.
I once took a psychology class in college and the professor said that if you are ever going on a trip to pick a certain song, hopefully one that is popular and then play it over and over and over during your trip. He said that later on when ever that song comes on the radio, you will be reminded of your trip and it will flood you with memories. Well that is exactly what that song did for you (only you did not program it on purposed). But it had meaning in terms of the relationship and it triggered memories and feelings. It can be sobering to think that we are making progress and then realize that our emotions are still caught up in situations that may not be what is best for us. If you keep up the good behavior the emotions eventually follow.