my mother is just plain crazy. she has broken the camels back right now and im so pissed off. shes now taken me and my husband off their msn list and what not and i can only talk to them through heather (my so called mother) and my dad. like who gives her the right to pull that freaking stunt. now i can't take it anymore i love my sister like they were my own and now i dont have a family. and the only reason she's been calling is so that she can yell at me on the phone and put me down and feel big about herself. well i know this might be cruel to say but sometimes i wish she werent alive. not that it should happen but sometimes i wish it would. she's taken my family away and now i dont have anyone but my husband not that he's not family but i dont have any of my own "kids" to spoil. god someone please tell my mother to smarten the hell up. and oh yeah on the message she left on my phone she went as far as to call me crazy and my husband crazy for being with me and marring me too soon. GOD I HATE THAT WOMAN. someone please help becuase i really don't know waht to do anymore.
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Oh hon....I\'m so sorry! Some days you\'re the dog, some days you\'re the hydrant right? I\'m so sorry you\'re having a hydrant day! I say piss on her! (LOL, j/k) I have issues with my mom myself...and I find that if I don\'t react to her nutso antics she doesn\'t mess with me as much. You cannot change the way people act, but you can change the way you respond. Even if you pretend what she does doesn\'t bother you (when it really does), it might make a difference. Maybe. Worth a try, right? You can\'t expert her to change, because it sounds like she is mean, sick, and getting some sort of yucky pleasure out of torturing you like this. But you can create boundaries on how you interact with her and how YOU react to her. Easier said than done, I know. Give it time. Get mad! Yell, scream, come here and vent. You have friend here that care. Your husband loves you! You\'re an amazing, smart, funny, talented woman who is a caring friend. Don\'t let her get you down! Be more mature than her, and don\'t sink to her level. Remember mom\'s don\'t always know everything and insulting you like she has just makes her a mean person, not you. Thinking about you, praying for you, and sending hugs across the states and up to Canada your way! Here to talk if you need it!
What does your Dad say about all this?? Where is he in all your mom\'s psycho stunts?
You poor thing. I am so sorry.