ya know im not a really cruel person but some people can be. I know its not ethical but all i really want to say is If anyone on this site wants to be a surrogate mother for me and my husband we are more then willing to help in any way cost wise. we arent rich or anything but we want seriouse people contacting us only and yes we will have you checked out to make sure your lagitamite. Ive written taht so many damn times i can say it in my sleep. I just want a baby to hold. someone please help us i dont know what else to do and i want children in my life i cant g with out them.