my mother has finally did it the bitch that she is.
i walked out on her easter after a little tiff. ( i really don't want to talk about that) then she tells my younger siblings that they can't talk to me since that happened now she's turned them against me. i hate that but i don't know what to do from here someone help. i lvoe my sisters and they love me but its like a tug awat with my mother.
i walked out on her easter after a little tiff. ( i really don't want to talk about that) then she tells my younger siblings that they can't talk to me since that happened now she's turned them against me. i hate that but i don't know what to do from here someone help. i lvoe my sisters and they love me but its like a tug awat with my mother.
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It sounds like your mom is a manipulative pain in the butt. What she\'s doing is using your sisters to get to you. The woman needs some psychological help.
Be patient sweetie, I know its hard to do. She does those things because she knows she can affect you and she\'ll use the things (in this case, your sisters) to get what she wants. She feels weak inside so she messes with your head and emotions to gain a few moments of sick power and control. This makes her feel in control of the situation and of you. She likes that rush of power, domination, and control over you. Its sick, its mean, and its wrong. And its not personal no matter how much it feels that way to you. I know, she\'s your mom (even if she\'s your adoptive mom). You still love her and that\'s why this is hard for you to handle. Remember your relationship with your sisters is more important to you. Personal pride is a small factor. You can\'t change how your mom acts, but you cant change how you act towards her. I suggest speaking to a therapist about this. I\'ve been doing that for the control issues with my mom for a long time. It will get better with time Joey, have faith and keep talking to friends & family who support you! Big hugs hon, I\'m here to talk anytime!