I just don't get it. My husband's cousin just got pregnant with their second child a month ago. When my husband told me I cried. It's just not fair. Now all over her FB page she is talking about how nauseated she is. WTF!!! I would do any thing to be nauseated for 9 months. We have been trying for two years now and if we had not lost the baby we would be due in a little over two months. I don't mean to be negative but I am just sitting hear crying and I need to vent. I don't want my husband to know that I am crying. OK, I am done! Tomorrow will be a better day! :) Thank you all for listening!
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I\'ve been where you are, believe me. I know you want to be happy but it seems to be a constant reminder of how much you want it. Sometimes I feel like everyone I know is pregnant or just had a baby. Wishing you a better day tomorrow.
PS I hated seeing all my expecting family and friends on FB so I found a bunch of DS friends too. It is nice to get to know people in a different way and somewhat comforting to see then post BFPs. If you can post in discussions. I would definitely add you as a friend.
HUGS
Honey I am so sorry. I completely understand. My SIL just found out she\'s pregnant and I was so upset that my DH didn\'t know what to do with me. I would have been due in two months as well if I hadn\'t lost our lil one and it does hurt when people close to you are pregnant and you aren\'t. It\'s funny it doesn\'t bother me so much when the other DS ladies get their BFP maybe because I know they have been through this pain and frustration. I\'m here for you to vent to anytime. XO :)
I hope you feel better today. I know what you are going through. My brother and SIL just got pg. They are 9 weeks now. They were embarrassed to tell me because they succeeded the first month they tried. That hurt. ...Happy for them, sad for us. Big hug to you!
I\'ve been there too. Allowing yourself to vent, but then moving on and being stronger because of it is the best way to handle it. Kudos to you. I don\'t know why things happen the way they do, and it definitely doesn\'t seem fair sometimes. I\'ll be praying for you.
i\'m sorry!
i know how you feel. sometimes it\'s like i spend all my time being upset about other people\'s pregnancies.
but way to just let the moment take you and feel better after! i need to learn this!
anyway.. good luck in the 2WW. i\'m thinking of you and sending you lots of baby dust!
sandi