8 months

I finally went to a grief counselor after 8 months yesterday...I’ve begun to feel a little listless.She said that it was natural to want to have another person in our life as a partner, and that we are just wired that way. She said life is too short for guilt... I’m missing the fun I had with my husband- going out to dinner, movies, going out of town on vacation, planning and entertaining...I’m getting bored doing this myself. I’ve had such a long to-do list, and now that I’ve accomplished quite a bit, I’m noticing that I’m a bit bored and want to some fun things to look forward to.