this night is like every night - my husband is watching a show he hates and i am on the computer. we are not communicating because if we do it'll be out in the open that i feel lonely and he'll feel ashamed that he has no desire to be intimate with me.  i type on keyboards to keeep me from becoming too depressed, but i know it is sad nonetheless....

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i know how you feel. he probably has low testosterone- please get him checked. what if all these problems can be solved with a cream?! Thats what Im hoping for in my situation. Stay strong
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thank you for your support. i actuallymentioned your diabetes story to him and he said he\'ll get checked but was very angered by the thought that i wondered if he was still able to get an erection...
so hard to deal with. damnedif you speak up, damned if you shut up....
but really all of your insight has helped keep me strong. thank you!