Well today is our sweet girls 8th birthday , her mom called and all she wanted to do was talk about herself..why after 4 years does this still surprise me. I find myself wondering when did she turn into such a selfish person, does she not see that her daughter is growing up and she is missing all of it . I thank God everyday that this little treasure is with us , I hate to think if we did not take custody of her, clearly her mother does not even care