I woke up this morning and that song "The Other Side" was in my head... and that was so comforting... Do yall remember it<>Go tell them all I did not die...  I'm just on the other side... I can fly... really fly... below the earh and all through the sky... Left my skin and bones behind... I'm on the other side...  That is not verbatim... I won't win the prize in the lyrics show... but those are the words that come to mind... and for some reason I felt like it was Cara telling me once again that she's just on the other side...   <> I was watching John Edward the psychic last night... and he had a caller who had a son but who contrary to me was doing pretty well... and contrary to a lot of us... but hey please... I'm not putting us down...  As John said... losing a loved one is hard... losing a child is probably the hardest loss there is...  So anyway John commented on the woman's positive spirit... He asked her how she was able to have such a positive spirit... her reply... she counts the blessings... not the losses...  My immediate reaction was not good... My thought was kind of I am aware of the blessings... that's why I'm so sad...  I can't understand why God took her from me... why did he bless me only to betray me... Now I know this isn't true... but I have to work through things in my own way.... we all do don't we..... anyway..... with those thoughts in my mind I did feel blessed this morning when I woke up with the positive thoughts generated by this song that was playing in my head and just seemed like it was a message.... I'm just on the other side mama... Count the blessings..... <>As always I  am grateful  you are here  for me to share with... and I'm so glad that today it is blessings I am sharing... Love To You All  Elissa  I wish you could see and feel my smile...